It’s that time of year again, when the wife’s side of the
family gathers at Honpa Hongwanji Mission to observe the Buddhist Obon custom of honoring the spirits of
our ancestors. Although the season includes Bon-Odori
(traditional dancing), our participation usually consist primarily of the religious service.
As a Christian, I can still find time to remember my
ancestors through this venue.
Usually, the officiating reverend is of Japanese ancestry;
this year, however, we were assigned Rev. Arthur Kauffmann, recently transferred
from Aiea Hongwanji.
And, for the first time, I was able to listen to the
traditional “Three Vows of Refuge” chant in English, vows that if not kept, may
preclude one from true Buddhism. I wish I could remember everything about the
chant, but it’s something about taking refuge in Buddha, the Dharma, and the
Sanha. If I’ve missed something, please forgive me. It’s the first time I’ve
understood what the chanting is about, and I was completely wrapped up in
listening.
The thing I enjoy most about the bon service is what the
reverends teach us during their post-chant discussions. Rev. Kaufmann talked
about the true meaning of the service – it’s not to honor our ancestors, it’s
not for us to feel good about them … it’s for us to benefit from their wish
that we live good and fulfilling lives.
Their life has lifted ours up; our lives will lift up those
of our children, and so forth. So it is with gratitude that we accept what they
have to offer. We are what they were.
Namu Amida Butsu.
It sounds very meaningful and enlightening and I wasn't there!
ReplyDeleteAt least this time I didn't see any of the family members nodding off during the chanting because they didn't understand the Japanese words. I enjoy the annual obon services, they are so meaningful and they open my eyes.
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